Few years ago, a friend of mine, told me a phrase consists of two words.. its been his password in his laptop, his emails n so on n so on... The two words were Love Hurts.. why would someone want to carry those around everywhere he go? Maybe those two words carved into his mind from his past experience, maybe he has been hurt.. or maybe its just another phrase he found on the net... i dunno wad.. but seems dat it has a pretty deep meaning for him.. =D
Ok not that anything happened, but i just watched a movie "Sugar & Spice - Fummi Zekka", a jap movie about love.. and about things that happen when someone's heartbroken.. haha.. not to stereotype.. but most girls dat i know might do similar things to the girl in the movie... maybe boys will do the same too.. but i dunno... world is made the way it is.. some things work.. and some don't...
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Before going further.. I just wonder, what about commitment.. lets make it more concrete by taking example =P... let say u have a boyfren or girlfren.. then u see someone else is much better than ur bf or gf.. seems dat the person responded pretty well to your liking... would u rather stick with ur old one or the one that u saw as "much better in most terms"... most peeps that haven't gone through with this case would say no, stick wit the old one, it is commitment that i've made.. it is not fair to do such thing... or another answer would be to take her or him the way she or he is, is the way, otherwise u'll keep finding a better one and keep changing and that's not what a commitment is...
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But then again... after u experience such thing, u might ask again, "why would u rather keep taking the old one when u can get a much better one which might last even longer and make u happier?".. Yes or no? when the answer is yes.. Love hurts for one party... but if the answer is no.. love hurts to for another party (the one who is getting rejected and maybe also the one who choose to answer no) ? so either way love hurts is that a fact? i've been in both position.. erm no i've been in those three psositions.. i know it hurts when someone left when the feeling starts growing, i know it hurts when u know u can do better but u r rejected, i know too what i'd do if i was given the choices.. i've answered yes too when the question's asked..
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What i can conclude is that, none of the positions mentioned above is fun.. none of them feels good... i dunno how i should answer if i am being asked dat question again.. i know answering no is not a good answer.. i have not done it, but i know someone who did.. and seems dat thing doesn't work with a no for that qn.. but a yes would hurt real bad too... darn... a hard question isn't it..?
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Sacrifice might be a key to answering the qn... which would most likely lead to the answer no for the one being asked qn.. but looking for different angle, if u want the best for the person u loved, wouldn't letting ur love answering yes is the key to make that person more happy? i dunno... this may not be valid too.. and damn.. why should i watch a movie that remind me of this freaking question...??
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Btw another thing that can answer the question is the phrase i posted last time.. its actually from Jenny, but not sure too where she found the quotes.. "Treasure what you have now, for that was once in ur wishlist..." so obviously with the quote, the answer to the quetion would be a "no, i'll keep the old one.." hahaz...
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Some of u might have realise after reading so long... the phrase love hurts is true to a certain extent.. it does for those who finds the situation i wrote above.. though love doesn't taste so bad when it is on the air and u r flying along with it hahaz.. it only hurts when it suddenly drop u after u reach certain heights... pretty general huh? after u drop from those heights, either u recover completely or that drop will give a wound and a scar that would still hurt after so long.. but damn it hahaz.. nevermind... i think we can start on another topic that'z more fun next time =P